Women in the workplace…

I’m very much aware that women are very much ‘globally sexually harassed in workplace’

…but I used to know a woman, (in a senior role) who systematically had sex with as many men in management as she could.

I vividly remember her behavior at a workplace event, and seeing her publicly chase a man for sex. I was very uncomfortable to be there and witnessing it.

I was embarrassed, because she was my senior, and she was my manager.

I just wanted to say that it’s not just men who harasse women…

Hyper normality = Hyper obesity

In Australia 1 in 3 people are now obese.

We’re around 25th in the world, just behind the USA.
Tonga is number one with 3 in 4 people being obese. I’m rather sad for their community.

….my state: South Australia, is the fattest state in Australia.

I’m both embarrassed and ashamed.

The thing i’ve noticed is: the more common the obese thing is, the more it is ‘normalized’…

…people just accept it just because so many people are overweight! So it becomes OK.

It reminds me of Germany 1939. Nazism had become the ‘norm’, so people just accepted it (well, the majority did).

Because of it being ‘normal’ here, more and more people are getting fatter.


empathy fatigue

just the other day I was walking down our city mall, behind two black women.
I think they were Sudanese, but not sure…

suddenly a white man pushed aside one of the women, so that she literally turned 180 degrees, facing me !!!!

it really shocked me to my core.

the woman who was pushed said (to her friend): “OMG did that just happen?”.
she was able to laugh it off, (sort of), mostly because the behaviour was so bizarre.

globalisation does have it’s benefits, as to does the internet…but there is also a downside to these things that play such a significant part of our lives whether we like it or not.

Empathy fatigue

fom Mr. Google:

Empathy fatigue results from a state of psychological, emotional, mental, physical, spiritual and occupational exhaustion that occurs as the counselors’ own wounds are continually revisited by their clients’ life stories of chronic illness, disability, trauma, grief and loss.

it seems like there is just another terrorist attack, then another…etc.

I’m still freaked out about the Machete Attack in London On the afternoon of 22 May 2013. they had to use DNA to confirm his identity, because his injuries were so severe.


since then I’m trying to keep up with the latest attack.
I think it fair to say that all of us suffer from empathy fatigue at some time in our lives…but it must be so very much worse for the friends and families! I just can’t imagine it.